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Shaving Pubic hair. To have or not to have. That's a tough and complex question. There are lots of expert opinions and arguments for and against it. In my opinion it's mostly irrelevant whether to have the hair or not in the medical sense, it probably won't affect your life span or have an impact on your morbidity. So forget others' opinions and do as you like, whatever feels best for you. I've been shaving for so long that I don't have images  of my genitalia with full grown pubic hair. It takes several  months, maybe a year, to let it grow to it's maximal length. My pubic hair after 10 weeks of shavelessness (age 31). Partially shaved  I prefer shaved genitalia for several reasons. I love genitalia, not hair. I like to feel the skin, not the hair. I find the genitalia aesthetically so beautiful that I prefer to see them bald. And it feels more intimate and exciting if someone wants to show her/his hairless private pl
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Age and sexuality Recent image of my 40+ years old penis There is a certain ambivalence in age in relation to sexuality. From one perspective it defines the whole sexuality and from an other aspect it's only numbers. When I was a young adult, say 20 years ago, I thought that people of my today's age were mostly not sexually attractive and didn't see them as persons with sexuality. I was interested only in girls of my age. But I was so wrong. Maybe I was so young and shy and narrow-minded that I didn't see the whole picture. Today I can find sexually attractive people from a very broad age range, they can be 18 or 60 years old, it depends more on the person, personality and other virtues, the age is not the most important factor. My penis at age 24 But how others see me as a middle-aged male in my 40's? I won't show my face on the Internet but I know that I look very young for my age, I don't have any wrinkles
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Testicular masturbation Testicles are pain sensitive organs but when rubbed or squeezed moderately they can produce wonderful sensations. They may be not sexually sensitive enough to achieve an orgasm by stimulating them only but I've been very close to it and have needed only very little penile stimulation. Often I stimulate simultaneously my testicles and penis or then I begin with my testicles and then move on to my penis. Me at age 35 using a ball ring. Testicles are organs that produce boy hormones and sperm cells so basically they are unnecessary in sexual stimulation and most of the men or their partner don't realize the potential and additional value they might have. Still they are the basis of the male sexuality, without them a male wouldn't have any sexual needs and urges. Someone might consider them aesthetically beautiful as well. If someone sees my testicles, he or she has seen the core of the basis of my sexuality and therefore I find it very ple
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(My) Penis size A big penis better? Most people prefer large penises (maybe not colossal) and big balls, they are a sign of manhood and thus an evidence of good genes and fertility. Or so we are prone to think. Maybe it's an evolutionary thing and we believe that the bigger the better. But it's not that way. I earlier wrote that for testicles there's a critical lower limit for their size in order to be fertile but for the penis there isn't. The size of the penis doesn't affect on the amount of pleasure the male can feel and it often doesn't affect how the female experiences the intercourse. It's not the size, it's how you use it. Sufficient penis length for a successful intercourse is an inch or two or a few centimetres and sometimes females even feel that a smaller penis feels better if their vaginal opening is tight. Sometimes the thickness is a more important factor than the length. Very rarely the small size of the penis is a real problem wh
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Spa, jeans images and my sexual arousal Thank you for all the feedback you've given. Especially I was touched from a lovely thanking email from a single mother who had used my blog to give some educational information to her daughter. I'll publish my email address in my profile page so that you can easily find it, and I'll keep it public for now. But remember that Google may categorize sexuality related emails as spam and they may go unnoticed, either your or mine. It has happened. Feel free to contact me but I don't have time and energy to have long dialogues with all of you. Spa I like to go to the spas and swimming baths. I don't go there for sexual reasons but it's a bonus if you can gain pleasure for yourself and maybe give it to others as well. As an exhibitionist the first thing I like there is undressing. I like being naked and I don't mind if someone takes a look on my package. I'm also observing, not staring, I try see as many genita