FAQ

FAQ

I've got exceptionally much emails with lots of questions. I haven't answered them all. I've got lots of supportive and empathetic messages, thank you! I'm working on a new post(s) but I wrote this as an extra post as same questions recur every now and then more or less often. The first question has probably been asked only once but it came up in my mind. So here are some Q&As, I may add new ones later.

• Can I watch secretly if someone is masturbating? It isn't illegal but it may not be fair either. I'd say it's understandable and exciting, many if not most of us would do it in certain circumstances. But keep the information to yourself, it likely is embarrassing to the masturbating person.

• Is it ok to masturbate with a friend? Sure, if you both want it. But if you are real young, you should be of about same age, age difference of about two years is probably ok.

• I'm a boy and get aroused by your videos. Does it mean that I'm gay? No. It's natural to get aroused by everything sexuality related. If you get aroused only by male videos then there's a big chance that you're gay.

• I (adult) live with my parents and don't have a place where to masturbate, what to do? Take a walk in the woods and find a peaceful place and do it. Take a walk in a public place, keep your hand in the pocket and unnoticeably rub your erect penis, have a such clothing that your ejaculation may not become visible unless you desire it. Do it in a public toilet. At beach or bathing hut. In shower, at night in the bed. Use your imagination!

• Is it ok to masturbate together with my parent/with my child? It's not ok, children should not be involved in the sexuality of the parents (or other adults). This still happens and may be understandable in rare situations but I don't suggest it. While it might be natural for a parent and child in certain circumstances, it is not ok for the majority of the people. If they get know this, you might be in trouble. It may also cause mixed feelings toward the parent later in the life. Seeing sexuality videos of an anonymous person without emotional bonds to him/her is a different thing and doesn't affect on the emotions and thoughts toward the peoples one would be in contact with in the real world.

• Can I show your videos to my children? It depends on many things and you must do the decision, I may be biased to encourage to do so. If you think there's more benefit than harm then why not. Many parents have shown my videos and thanked, nothing negative has ever happened that I know, the young watchers have been curious and straightforward. Basing on some sources, first exposure to Internet porn (accidentally or intentionally) happens at age 11, 12-17 year-olds are the largest group to consume Internet porn (Psychologies Magazine). Therefore, as there's nothing frightening or traumatizing in my videos, they are a better alternative to undefined Internet porn, still showing pivotal aspects of sexuality.

• I live with my religious parents and they disallow me to masturbate. Is this ok? No, it's not. You've right to your own body and can do whatever you like with it. If you decide to not masturbate because of your own faith, it's then your own decision.

• I'm underaged. Can I send you pics of my genitalia? I don't encourage to do it as you may not see every aspects of the issue if you are very young. From my aspect it's illegal to have sexually explicit material of underaged. If you have a specific medical or a psychological issue, then it probably would be ok but I ask you to consider whether it's necessary.

• Would you like to see my (adult) cock? I get so much cock images that as a straight male I don't often get excited unless there's some kind of story to tell or something special in the images or a video. I promise to watch every image and video but I get so much emails that I will prioritize my time in answering emails with more content.

• Can we chat? No. Can we meet? No. Can you show your face? No. Can you send me more videos? Usually not, on a rare occasion I've sent some stuff.

• Can you publish my video? Basically yes, but I get lots of these requests. If I publish one then I should publish other videos too. I may consider publishing some of my readers' videos sometime. Female videos are more than welcome as I don't have such and I've been asked several times to write about female sexuality, like masturbation. Quarter of my readers are females but they very rarely write to me (please write and ask questions!) or send me stuff.

• I'm angry because I've been circumcised when I was child. Is there anything to fix this? In some cases it's possible to stretch the foreskin so much that at least it partially covers the glans penis. However, huge amount of nerves and thus sensitivity are lost forever.

And a couple of questions of my own you might be interested in:

• How people from different religions and cultures deal with my blog? There haven't been any problems, people who are reading this blog are very open-minded. Sexuality brings together all the people, universally all people share same basic emotions, feelings and sexual sensations and functions. I've at least Catholic, Protestant, Jewish and Muslim readers and people from some minor religions too. Male circumcision and prohibition of masturbation are common topics with readers of certain religions. Circumcision is a so much asked topic that I'll write about it more, including girl's circumcision. If I've a circumcised female reader I ask to write about it and possibly send some images.

• What kind of my audience is like? One quarter are gays, half are straight and rest are bisexuals or others. One quarter are females, one quarter are under 18. Average age is 25. 90 % get aroused while reading the blog, for one quarter it's the main reason to read the blog. Over 90 % wish more sexual images and videos. Less than 10 % think this is an adult only blog.

And as 90 % of you want more sexual stuff so here's for you. Video quality is not so good as here the maximum file size is 100 MBytes and maximum resolution 720P. Original video is 4K. This is 15 months old video.

Have you found my Flickr account? Richie X | Flickr