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A boner in public

Last week I had a rock hard boner in a public place so I thought to write about this issue. This was nothing new to me, I've had those since childhood but this boner lasted long, for about 10 minutes so I had time to think about this thing when it was actually happening.

I had to waste some time so I took a walk and wandered around. In that day I had a calm mind but some kind of sexual tension and during this walk my penis began to erect, maybe it was partly because of the friction and partly I was on such a sexual mood. It erected to the full size and when the foreskin retracted off the glans penis it was exposed to friction which didn't help the situation. I had wind pants on me and certainly they revealed a lot. I'm not that exhibitionistic that I always like if I have a boner in my pants and other people can see it, occasionally it's fun (and in fantasy), but usually not. Earlier I often have tried to hide it or have had palpitations if it had been completely visible to others. But this time I made a decision that I won't hide it, I'll walk as if there was nothing unusual. I was anxious when the first pedestrians and cars passed me by but I just said to myself that "Just keep walking!". Then I just forgot the thing and several cars had gone by. It was a liberating experience and in the future I won't stress as much if a public boner happens. I don't know if someone saw the boner or not but nothing bad happened and I was kind of happy from that experience.

I have thought that if I have a visible boner in a public place, which is completely natural and it happens often to me, am I responsible if someone sees it and consideres it offensive or is the responsibility on the watcher? He or she doesn't need to watch at the crotch area and if he/she watches there, should we think that he/she must withstand what he/she sees there?

In my opinion a random and spontaneous erection is natural and there shouldn't be need to try to hide it every time. Only rare bypassers notice it and if it has been noticed, most likely it's just ignored or the watcher doesn't show any reaction. And if he/she shows a reaction it probably is positive, a smile, a horny gaze etc., which should be taken as a compliment. If the reaction after all is negative, the bypasser just has not enough knowledge of male physiology.

So you, young guys there, learn yourself to accept those accidental boners, you don't need to always hide them. It's just normal that the penis does it sometimes, there would be a medical issue if it never does so. Its job is to do so.

And you, young ladies there, be sympathetic when you see a boner, don't embarrass the guy. You have two options: ignore it or in suitable circumstances keep glancing subtly, if you like, and give a gentle smile perhaps, if you find it appropriate. But don't say anything, just withhold it, it's a sensitive thing to a guy, a much more sensitive than a cameltoe to a girl.

Oh, I almost forgot... what was the solution to my boner problem? I went to a nearby park where I was alone and masturbated behind some trees, it took like 30 seconds to "explode". So I left some semen samples on the ground and left there fulfilled.

Pants of certain type reveal body shapes well. When the erection is
highly visible it may cause tension and excitement which may make
the situation even worse.