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A new blog Hi again! I started a new blog: Modern Sexual Education (modernsexed.blogspot.com) This is an answer to many wishes of giving simple sexual education. This is done in an unconventional way. I'll write pretty much of the same things but from a slightly different perspective. I quit posting to this blog as there aren't many readers any more (flagged as an adult only blog which requires signing in to verify age, and the link to the blog was removed from the Wikimedia Commons). Still, there are 700 views a month, so I put this link here for my loyal readers. Let's see if this new blog gathers readers to an extent when it's worthwhile posting on it.
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Health & sexuality and Sayonara  Hi! Things change... Views of this blog decreased dramatically 10 months ago when the link to this blog was removed from Wikimedia Commons. It wasn't the first time and I don't feel like fighting against. Now Blogger requires to login because of age verification. This also decreased views dramatically. So, there's only less than 100 views a day left. This made me to consider, whether I've enough will to do posts anymore. I've plans for my future, time and money consuming projects. I also have noticed that I was repeating myself, but I had ideas to change this. This may be a good moment to retire from keeping this blog. Five years and 33 posts before this. I don't delete my posts for now. If somehow this blog gets more visibility, I might start writing again. Or I might do small posts every now and then for you, my remaining audience. Or I might delete this blog for good in the future at some point. I don't know. I'll

Awareness of genitalia, exhibitionism and femininity

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Exhibitionism, clothing and femininity And a new video This is what I've been asked to show: me in blue jeans and my penis peeking out of the fly. And because I'm an exhibitionist, I enjoy to show this to you. Feedback I get lots of emails and I'm slow in answering, I apologize that. Sometimes I forget to answer and the emails get buried under dozens of emails. Then I get emails from same-name persons, some send me emails from different addresses, I can get several emails from one person etc. So I find it difficult to be up to date. Today, I spent several hours to answer your emails, even some very old ones. I can't comment every thing and don't answer to every mail. But I promise to read every email and usually answer "soon" if it's about a health issue or a younger person. Please, always tell me your age, it's important. It affects how I understand your questions and situation, how I answer and how I deal with sensitive information or media if yo

War, the young, prostate stimulation and media views

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War, the young, prostate stimulation and media views I'm again sorry for not posting. After my latest post I had several ideas and was preparing new posts. Then I got (again) busy and was under a heavy load of stress. Then began the Russo-Ukrainian war. There are some aspects why this has affected me personally a lot (not going into this in detail). Obviously this has affected me in several ways, including my libido. Now I have so much to say that I don't know what to say and what to not say. But thank you for your lovely emails, feedback and support, I've been asked to write, and now I'll do it eventually. I've also read all your emails and try to answer most of them soon. Earlier post "FAQ" and the young I got many positive feedbacks after my latest post "FAQ". Couple of comments to them. I've written several times about the young and sexuality: this is a sensitive issue, many of my readers are young or parents of the young and I answer oft

FAQ

FAQ I've got exceptionally much emails with lots of questions. I haven't answered them all. I've got lots of supportive and empathetic messages, thank you! I'm working on a new post(s) but I wrote this as an extra post as same questions recur every now and then more or less often. The first question has probably been asked only once but it came up in my mind. So here are some Q&As, I may add new ones later. Can I watch secretly if someone is masturbating? It isn't illegal but it may not be fair either. I'd say it's understandable and exciting, many if not most of us would do it in certain circumstances. But keep the information to yourself, it likely is embarrassing to the masturbating person. Is it ok to masturbate with a friend? Sure, if you both want it. But if you are real young, you should be of about same age, age difference of about two years is probably ok. I'm a boy and get aroused by your videos. Does it mean that I'm gay? No. It's

Your feedback, wishes and answers

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Do I get hard when I get praises of my penis? Or when I do posts? This image is taken now knowing that a wide audience will see it. Please, read more! One new video at the end of the post. Feedback, wishes and answers Hi folks! There's a survey, and I ask you ALL to answer it because it's important to get a representative sample. I need feedback so that I know what I'm expected to do and I want some other information I might use some day. I'd like to write about the size of the genitalia and perseption of the size and looks of someone's own genitalia in comparison to others'. And I'd like to write about artistic and estethical aspects of the genitalia some day. You may send me closeup and semi-closeup photos of your hairless genitalia showing their shapes and details. I've got exceptionally much feedback by mail, thank you for it, I haven't answered to all. Post "Being a gay" got lots of positive feedback, it was important for many that I p

Basics of the masturbation

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Basics of the masturbation I've asked to do posts about dozens of things. Many suggestions are good and feasible and some of them I'll write about later. Many wishes are related to masturbation and erection. I've written lots about them but new perspectives are asked. Lately I've been asked to teach how to masturbate and to give hints. I've been thinking this many times and I haven't been sure if it's necessary as I've written and shown lots of videos about this and this is such a basic thing that most of you know how to do. However, there are many people who are interested in this topic and they may have their reasons to want this kind of education. I've got several emails from young adults who have lived their childhood in a religious family where masturbation has been a great sin and they are uncertain if they have right to do it and how to begin with this. I know there are very young guys reading this and interested in the basics and then there a

Being a gay

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Is your sexual orientation defined basing on how you like the genitalia of different genders? Being a gay In principle, being a gay, doesn't affect your life any other way than what you feel about the same sex people in the sense of sexuality. But it does in several ways. When I was a child back in the 80's, gay people had rough times. They were considered weird or even lunatic, they were being laughed at and ostracised. In many countries same-sex sexual activity was criminalized. Nowadays situation is way better and improving all the time. But I can, or maybe I can't, imagine how hard it has been to be a gay teenager before the era of the internet, there has been very little information available about homosexuality. It has been excruciating to be in the belief that is abnormal and almost forced to change sexual orientation and being a loser if wasn't able to do that. Or feeling need to pretend to be straight. Things are now better but young gay people may still need i

My exhibitionism

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I've been extremely aroused today, my testicles rose into the inguinal canals due to the tightening scrotum when I took this photo for you. My exhibitionism and videos as educational tools Hi! And thanks for your emails. And sorry for not posting earlier. I've been missing you. I've been asked to do new posts and got several questions and topic suggestions. I don't reply to all of you as I get lots of emails but I'll read them all and usually respond if you have serious issues or important questions. I get lots of penis pics (I'm a straight guy) and don't usually respond to them. If you have a medical issue or are uncertain of your genitalia then I more likely will answer. Parents have asked several times whether they could show my videos to their offsprings. It's completely their choice and depends on the circumstances. I've got many thanks from parents, my vids have been rewarding and of great help. Many readers have thanked by saying that they wer
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  How to pleasure an intact male? At first, please read my thoughts in a post in my other blog and feel free to comment:  Female sexuality from male aspect (femalesexualityblog.blogspot.com) Well, the main difference between an intact and a circumcised male is the foreskin, so this is the basis for the answer. The foreskin moves back and forth over the glans penis. This itself feels good for the male, especially when the penis is erect. The male can be given a handjob by this way. The glans penis of an intact male is slightly different if compared to a circumcised penis. It's more glossy and a way more sensitive. If you do a blowjob or otherwise stimulate the glans penis with a lubricant, keep in mind that the glans penis is very sensitive since it usually is protected by the foreskin. The mucous membrane of the glans penis keeps thinner and doesn't desensitize because there's no friction in the pants. There's a large sensitive area in the inside of the foreskin, especi
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Puberty - sexuality and health I'm very sorry that I haven't written for a long long time. My workload has increased a lot last year and I haven't been in a mood of writing. I haven't answered to your emails. It's difficult because I don't read my emails very often and when I read there are dozens of them and I don't have time or will to answer them all so I haven't answered at all :(. But I read them all at some point. There are many topics I could write about but lately I've got lots of wishes from adolescents to write them about puberty. Basically this is a blog to adults, but I know there are lots of adolescents reading this and I think it's a positive thing. There are also lots of parents of adolescents reading this, basically it's their duty to educate their children and give them proper information and to encourage them to enjoy their journey to the adulthood and to find the positive aspects as well. I've touched this topic e